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Love is the energy shared between two people. For it to be good the energies, at its core must be in sync. Once all the layers are shed, there you will find the shared purpose for love, comfort. Learning the art of comfort begins at birth, with the level of comfort from which infant is given as a child by parent. That builds what we like to believe as being ‘innate’  but in fact its what we make a customary occurrence in our immediate environment, culture. It is never too late to learn comfort nor is it too late to learn to Love. The time is always anointed and prescribed by God. When he brings you to Love prepared or not you will learn how to do it for self by loving another. When as infants we are born our mothers and fathers bestow upon us the first instances of love. If by fate one misses this chance to initial love the child even if receiving a substitute will always lack the bond that is  true love. Until the Child and parent work through the constrains of what holds them back there will always be that emotional tension.     To catch many a sunrise with you is bliss. We should put that on our bucket list. To catch many a sunset, naked. It’s an even more wonderful feeling i might surmise,  doing it with the one whom you love and who loves you. Love is not hard nor is it easy, love is a lesson in life. It’s the ability to live honestly, truthfully, sincerely. Make this love pure, be true to you.

 

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Creative block

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Nothing like healthy, impressive competition to get your creative juices running again. you’ve been doing your thang for quite some time, and whoooosh just like that there is a new kid on the block, fresher, more innovative, hungrier than you, doing it, better than you’re willing to work right now.

You wake all the way up and step your cookies up, admit you’re not on the same level, and lean into your veteran wisdom. You’ve been deterred before, felt unworthy, scared, but then you tap into your unlimited source of veteran wisdom. And you realize you are where you are due to the previous work you’ve done, you aren’t on the same level as the newbie who is admittedly so, doing the damn thing. You’ve dreamt of doing workshops? do it, You’ve dreamt of expanding and exporting? Do it. Step all the way into the light with faith and do your thang. Buy a camera, have fun take pictures, commit to growing and learning and evolving,

Creative block is an illusion, its merely a resting period, for the next leg of your journey, Go with God. Competition Don’t exist.

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Moonshine

Seldom do you find “powerful” people apologizing. An apology should be just as adamant as their conviction, regardless if the accused defends themselves vocally or with silence, an apology is needed. Small awkward conversations does not quell the situation even if it was initiated by the ” powerful” accuser. 

   For the posterity of peace in my stomach, mind and heart I have activated forgiveness and practice the art of letting God. True power is experienced with small, sincere acts that emboldens you – so simple, so divine- that it commands respect. 

And for those who can’t muster up an apology, I lift you up in prayers. Your indirect approach does not go unnoticed. Bless up yourself, forever large. 

Sunshine

My mother once said ” be good ” as pre marital advice. I was off course skeptical as she was a recent divorcee. I have walked with it though at times my pettiness gets the best of me, drinking bush tea for my husbands cold, but I’ve digressed. 

    My mother is one of the most phenomenal women I know. Seldom does she shed tears, she’s does everything she wants to, she dresses well, cooks exquisitely, is fit and fun so then why did my father habitually cheat on her? Was is that she never allowed the free flow of emotions? Never provided the environment he needed to evolve emotionally? Is that why I too am stunted with my emotions? 

AND THINKING IT OVER I can’t recall a time where feelings was ever encouraged at home. I’m trying so damned hard to understand where it is I come from, where I am and what I can do to help my kids be a bit more secure in this world. Emotion has its place, balance is key. Is it too late to help heal both my parents although they’re separated? Love can heal. That much I know. It’s ok to be vulnerable mommy- vulnerability is beautiful. 

Karma

Forgiveness voids Bad karma, transcends it and it’s hold on those who are to inherit it. 

        Forgive while it is still fresh on your mind, forgive while your blood starts returning to its normal temperature after its quick boil, forgive while you’re still alive- 

Apple Rose Facial Toner 

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It has been one of those days, you know the kind of day where you are the sanest person you know and everything outside of you is draining the good life out. To bounce back it appears that you may need a stiff cocktail or some other vice- however all you have on hand is Rose water, Apple cider vinegar, and Sulphur spring water.

Luckily for you that is all you need to feel rejuvenated:

1 cup of sulphur spring water ( or alkaline water )

1 tsp ACV

2 tbsp Rose water

Place in spritz bottle and liberally spray onto face and décolletage. Now relax and enjoy the silence. Simple bliss- self care 😘

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Apple Rose Facial Toner 

It has been one of those days, you know the kind of day where you are the sanest person you know and everything outside of you is draining the good life out. To bounce back it appears that you may need a stiff cocktail or some other vice- however all you have on hand is Rose water, Apple cider vinegar, and Sulphur spring water. 

  Luckily for you that is all you need to feel rejuvenated: 

1 cup of sulphur spring water ( or alkaline water )

1 tsp ACV

2 tbsp Rose water 

Place in spritz bottle and liberally spray onto face and décolletage. Now relax and enjoy the silence. Simple bliss- self care 😘

A home office, a baby, a life

Great read! Advice for potential boss moms

write meg!

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Who knew a room could launch you into adulthood?

I spend a strange amount of time not feeling “old enough.” Not old enough to have a house, a car, credit cards, a checkbook. Not being old enough to have a husband and a baby on the way; not old enough to argue with cable companies and insurance representatives, to be grocery shopping independently and gathering tax documents.

Though I don’t obsess about it, I often feel like I’m glancing over my shoulder — waiting for someone else to swoop in and take care of things. Fix the insurance snafus; adjust the thermostat. Be the adult in the room.

It’s scary to realize you’re the adult present. The one throwing the party, taking the phone calls, signing up for health care. It’s all you.

We have a home office. One with built-in cabinetry, outlets for computers, actual computers, a mug with…

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Self care is not a Sin 

  Ladies- this one is for us. As queens we are often times burdened with the onus of multitasking with little to no time left for ourselves and that right there is the first mistake- neglecting our self. To give the best of us we have to feel our best and as such have to carve out time to care for self before caring for others.  So if that means something is to be rolled over into tomorrow’s priority list- let that be. Too many times we try our best to get everything done within that 24 hours allotted to us, while that is applause worthy- at what cost? Too many times we forego our inner peace and mental health to appease others. This must stop.

   Spend time indulging in what rejuvenates you, eg. Traveling, Dancing, Dressing up- it’s ok to do these things, it is ok to enjoy yourself in what ever manner you choose. We must understand that the days of answering to a master or authoritative figure has long gone, that master is now the self. Make better choices where you are concerned, exercise your right to freedom and discipline.  Validation of self by self = confidence. This is some thing that we all 

have issues with, trusting that we have done the right thing or made the right decision. In life there is no right nor is there  any wrong, there are however opportunities and great mistakes. Be thankful always for all that you have at any given time. 

  It is never too late to pick up a new hobby or learn a new skill- if you’ve always been interested in music believe in yourself and try it out! Cooking? Believe in yourself and try it out! Dancing? Believe in yourself and try it out! You’ll never know how good you are at something until you believe in yourself, pray and try it out. Even if at first you fail that in itself is a huge win if you are persistent. Failure simply is saying I refuse to try again. You and your happiness are worth every trial and error there is to make in the land of the living.